But here's what I learned: YOU DON'T HAVE TO HAVE A "CONVERSATION" AT ALL WHEN YOU FIRST MEET A WOMAN. ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS GET HER DIGITS!
In my ebook, I teach you how to get a woman's email and phone number in about 3 minutes.
Now, there's a lot more to success with women than just getting numbers. But for the sake of
this argument, let's just say that ALL YOU REALLY NEED TO BE CONCERNED WITH WHEN YOU'RE FIRST MEETING A WOMAN IS GETTING HER EMAIL AND PHONE NUMBER.
The longer you talk to a woman when you first meet her, the more likely you are to say something stupid, say something that disqualifies you in her mind, or get into a conversation that goes down the wrong road. It's as simple as that.
If you don't waste any time, and just focus on getting her email and number, you'll be able to
set up a second meeting... where you can focus on taking things to the next level. And trust me,
it's a lot easier to recover from a mistake or bad conversation when you're sitting across from her alone over a cup of tea then when you're looking at her over the mango section in the supermarket.
So let's land the plane...
The question is, "What do you do to get her to give up the info so quickly?".
Easy.
1) Know exactly how you want the conversation to go.
2) Know HOW to ask.
3) Know WHEN to ask.
4) Have pen and paper on you.
I recommend that you take a few minutes every day to imagine having conversations with new
women. It might go something like this:
"Hi there, you're cuter than the average woman that I see in the produce section... are you friendly?"
Her: "Ha ha... well, sometimes."
"So, are you shopping for a special occasion, or is this just a routine produce visit?"
Her: "No, just here for some fruit."
"Nice. Are you from the area?"
Her: "Yeah."
"Are you from here originally?"
Her: "Born and raised."
"Well, it was nice meeting you... and enjoy your mango..."
Her: "Thanks."
"Hey... do you have email?"
Her: "Yeah, I do."
Check this out... treat the "Yeah" as an agreement to give it to you, then take a pen out of your pocket (I prefer the Space Pen) and hand it to her to write down her email. As she's writing say, "and write your number there too... and your name, which I didn't get..."
The key is that you have to act LIKE THIS IS THE MOST NATURAL THING IN THE WORLD.
...OK, see how easy that was? Is that realistic? I think so. I've personally gotten HUNDREDS of emails and phone numbers (from women I've just met) with dialogues like that.
I think a key is to MENTALLY REHEARSE how you will handle yourself so you know exactly what to do when the time comes. It all has to flow and seem natural.
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