Have Interesting Conversations With Women

Women are sick of being sucked into boring conversations with men they are not attracted to. They’ve been asked by men who only talk to them because of their looks about where they live and what they do perhaps thousands of times by the time another is about to do so again tonight.

By simply being different from all those other men before you, you stand out in a positive way and that can quickly lead her to feelings of attraction. To be that man you need only follow a few simple pointers:

1. Avoid ‘Hairdresser’ Conversation

Imagine now what kinds of things you might talk to the hairdresser or cousin you see every Christmas about. In all honesty, it’s probably mundane droll about work or the footie- what I like to call ‘conversation on rails’ as you go through the same procedure as you would when talking to anyone you don’t know all that well.

We abhor having these conversations and answering the same questions time and time again but for attractive women who get approached, most of the time these will be uninvited and happen at inopportune moments, the issue is even bigger.

2. Don’t Interview A Woman

When women are approached they tend to be put on the spot and face answering a series of questions akin to those fired at them when being interviewed for a job. This gets boring very quickly and any woman willing to put up with this will be either very, very polite or really attracted to you! Do not throw a volley of questions at a woman. Ask one; take the time to connect with her having heard her answer and move onto another.

For advanced skill levels, try to elicit the answer without actually asking the question- make as assumption about or guess what she does, where she’s from etc. You will be able to garner the same information but make it a more interesting process for her.

3. Don’t Be Predictable

If a girl has pretty eyes- she knows it! And she’s probably heard guys tell her that thousands of times already. Try to find something specific to concentrate on if you must compliment her (preferably something not about her appearance) - or say nothing at all- but avoid this too early on in the interaction.

4. Be Armed With Interesting Answers

Certain questions and conversational paths are trodden time and time again by everyone. Think about what yours might be and try to make your input more interesting. If a conversation gets boring because the girl’s answers were boring she won’t remember it was her fault, she’ll just remember she was bored around you!

5. Be Passionate

Talking about something you are passionate about naturally draws your audience towards you. If you enjoy something then make sure to express that using visual and emotive language. People tend to get caught up in it and will start to feel good too and when that happens they will crave your company.

Do the above and you will see that you become that much more interesting to not only women but also other people around you. Because most people will not follow these rules, it makes it all the more easier a job to stand out.

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First Date Conversational Guide

The first date is the perfect time to get to know the woman sitting opposite you better.

Alot of men will make the same mistake of boring a girl to death by interviewing her and asking questions about where the girl is from, what she does for a living, what hobbies she has, about her favourite film/book, about her family etc. etc. zzzzzz….

The fact is, the average beautiful woman has been on more first dates than you care to imagine and has been approached by guys at bars, on her way to work, picking up her laundry thousands of times over. She has already heard and had to answer these questions again and again. How can you stand out and make a killer first impression? Ask great questions!

Questions that will help you have a memorable first date share the same traits and will be:

Original;
Able to evoke old memories;
Be associated with positive emotions;
Be challenging.
Example questions:

Did you have an imaginary friend when you were a little girl?
Can you remember your first day at school?
These questions will evoke memories that have strong emotions attached to them as they recall a girl’s childhood experiences.

If you could wake up tomorrow anywhere in the world, where would it be?
Another good question and vitally, a viable alternative to questions like “Do you like to travel?” Better still; get her to describe the place vividly until she feels like she is there.

Are your friends mostly men or women?
This question gives you an insight into a girl’s character and gets them talking about people they care about without you having to do much digging.

What’s the one thing you can’t say “no” to?
A girl’s answer to this question will let you find out what she enjoys and will allow her to answer with a gleeful expression. Perhaps she’s a chocoholic- you can then describe how good it is to eat chocolate and watch how she begins to be lead into a desiring state.

Have you got any hidden talents?
This question is great for screening a girl later on in the rapport stage of an interaction and she may feel pressurised to prove herself to you when answering. But do remember that she is likely to ask the same of you so be ready with an answer.

Have you been in love?
Focus on the time she was actually in love- do not ask what happened as it shifts the focus to the break up! Try to get her to remember those giddy feelings and since she is in the presence of a cool guy like yourself, she will be imagining having those feelings for you. This question has several advantages: firstly, it evokes associations with love and secondly, it gets the topic of discussion onto the subject of relationships and lets her imagine being part of one with you more easily.

Throw out some of these great questions and you’ll have the woman thinking you are the most interesting guy she has ever had the pleasure of meeting. Not only that but you’ll be able to establish a deep connection- something you can never get by asking “So…..do you have any hobbies?”