First Date Conversational Guide

The first date is the perfect time to get to know the woman sitting opposite you better.

Alot of men will make the same mistake of boring a girl to death by interviewing her and asking questions about where the girl is from, what she does for a living, what hobbies she has, about her favourite film/book, about her family etc. etc. zzzzzz….

The fact is, the average beautiful woman has been on more first dates than you care to imagine and has been approached by guys at bars, on her way to work, picking up her laundry thousands of times over. She has already heard and had to answer these questions again and again. How can you stand out and make a killer first impression? Ask great questions!

Questions that will help you have a memorable first date share the same traits and will be:

Original;
Able to evoke old memories;
Be associated with positive emotions;
Be challenging.
Example questions:

Did you have an imaginary friend when you were a little girl?
Can you remember your first day at school?
These questions will evoke memories that have strong emotions attached to them as they recall a girl’s childhood experiences.

If you could wake up tomorrow anywhere in the world, where would it be?
Another good question and vitally, a viable alternative to questions like “Do you like to travel?” Better still; get her to describe the place vividly until she feels like she is there.

Are your friends mostly men or women?
This question gives you an insight into a girl’s character and gets them talking about people they care about without you having to do much digging.

What’s the one thing you can’t say “no” to?
A girl’s answer to this question will let you find out what she enjoys and will allow her to answer with a gleeful expression. Perhaps she’s a chocoholic- you can then describe how good it is to eat chocolate and watch how she begins to be lead into a desiring state.

Have you got any hidden talents?
This question is great for screening a girl later on in the rapport stage of an interaction and she may feel pressurised to prove herself to you when answering. But do remember that she is likely to ask the same of you so be ready with an answer.

Have you been in love?
Focus on the time she was actually in love- do not ask what happened as it shifts the focus to the break up! Try to get her to remember those giddy feelings and since she is in the presence of a cool guy like yourself, she will be imagining having those feelings for you. This question has several advantages: firstly, it evokes associations with love and secondly, it gets the topic of discussion onto the subject of relationships and lets her imagine being part of one with you more easily.

Throw out some of these great questions and you’ll have the woman thinking you are the most interesting guy she has ever had the pleasure of meeting. Not only that but you’ll be able to establish a deep connection- something you can never get by asking “So…..do you have any hobbies?”